June 4, 2013

In a word: Lonely

So the party's over. My brother's back to the big city. Bunny's been away for 4 days now so it's only me, and Chiko. And my family of course. It's so sweet of them to stay over and keep me company while Bunny's away, but I guess when you've gotten use to living with someone (like in this case, Bunny) and that someone is not around.. you'll miss them. Tho there are times when Bunny and I would quarrel or disagree (over small matter, most of the time) ..like that time when I got so so annoyed because we had to watch 'The Life of Pi' (when I actually wanted to watch the other movie - which I couldn't remember which. lol) I must say, it's those 'ugly' things that makes you closer to that person.

I remember the story that Bunny told me about the man who sat beside him on one of his flight to Kota Kinabalu, about a year ago. The man, a teacher, just lost his wife about a month before. This man, who's a total stranger to Bunny, mentioned that during his wife's lifetime, they often quarrel and fight over stupid things. Now that his wife's gone, it occurred to him that it was those fights that made him misses his wife the most. "Yang bergaduh-gaduh itu lah yang paling kita ingat...", was his exact words.

So I guess it's those fights and quarrels that made me think of him a lot these few days.

Anyway, Bunny's coming home tomorrow and I've already re-arranged his clothes in the closet. Tidied things up, neatly fold everything and aligned the clothes on the hangers according to size and length. Can't wait to see his surprised face tomorrow when he opens up the closet. :D

Still many hours more to go before I see him. I'm gonna do some reading before going to bed tonight. It's a book my brother accidentally left at home. Before he takes it back, I'm gonna read it up. Ha!


By the way, I changed my blog template again. Couldn't stand the natural shades of colors that I made last night. I guess, after all, I am a pastel color lover at heart and soul. Hope you like the new change!

6 comments:

  1. Thanks for dropping by my blog:).
    I think your blog looks soft and pretty, very soothing.

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    1. Thank you for visiting back! Yea.. the colors are pretty soothing now. :)

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  2. The first thing I noticed about your blog was how serene and lovely it is, so yes, I do like it very much! Okay I am guessing 'bunny' is your husband? I do the same thing! The sad thing is I am not even sure my husband notices :) I let the closet go for a few months and then the organization monster comes out.

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    1. Hi Marie! 'Bunny' is my fiance. :) Thank you for dropping by. I guess we all have an 'organization monster' inside that would come out when the time comes. lol

      By the way, I love how you put it: 'organization monster'. :D

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  3. I guess it's because when we gaduh2 it involves deep emotions. Hence, the gaudh2 part imprinted deeper in our memories.

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    1. You're probably right! ..And I think I read somewhere that says couples should fight at least once a week in order to build a closer relationship. LOL

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